Ten Minutes With Tim

The Standard I Use on You vs the One I Use on Me

Tim Owen

Why is it so easy to see what’s wrong in others, and so hard to see what’s wrong in ourselves? Why do we excuse our own failures while holding others to a higher standard?

This episode wrestles honestly with judgment, forgiveness, trauma, and grace. Not the shallow kind that rushes healing or minimizes pain, but the costly kind Jesus modeled from the cross. We explore why unforgiveness quietly imprisons us, why God alone is qualified to judge, and how gratitude can shrink our need to compare.

This isn’t about excusing evil. It’s about stepping out of God’s seat, releasing what we were never meant to carry, and finding freedom where bitterness once lived.

If forgiveness feels complicated, or impossible, this conversation is for you.


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